Body Positivity
this body after birth is the one leading towards transformation - not physically but mentally. i’m learning to reconnect with myself after my experience with cole living in my belly as well as him being here. some days when i look at myself in the mirror i think “i wish i looked different. why is there so much cellulite? stretch marks here and there, how?” other days i think, “hell yes girl, you look good. this strong body made two healthy babies! dat ass tho!!
it’s not about getting my body back, i’ve always had it. i’m exactly where i need to be and i think that’s beautiful.
i can’t believe how beautiful these marks, creases and extra body there is, i love it” as you can see, the good out ways the bad and it’s normal to feel these things. we’re human, we’re learning, things are constantly changing and my feelings are valid regardless of what people think of me. i’m not gonna sit here and lie and pretend everything is GREAT all the time. that’s just not reality. everyday is an opportunity to learn, grow and accept who we are. gratitude is what’s made me get through the not so good thoughts. showing myself love has made a difference in my mental health. not comparing my journey to anyone has saved me. it’s not about getting my body back, i’ve always had it. i’m exactly where i need to be and i think that’s beautiful.